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Cats and Kids
"Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened."
Anatole France
A Girl and Her Cat
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Many parents know that the best way for children to learn compassion and the
importance of keeping commitments is by helping to care for a pet. Sometimes
this gets misinterpreted as "taking care of a pet teaches responsibility,"
but the truth is that children learn from watching the adults in their lives.
A cat can be a marvelous, loving companion for a child, but it is up to the
adults in the family to ensure the cat and the kids live together happily
ever after.
When you first bring a cat home, explain to your child that they will need to
be patient, quiet and gentle to help the cat feel safe. Sit on the floor with
your child and help him practice patience as the cat gets up the courage to
come close. Let your child feed the cat a piece of food from his hand. If the
cat is reluctant to come close, have your child gently toss a piece of food
close to the cat. Once the cat realizes what your child is offering, the ice
will melt.
Very young children can easily overwhelm a cat or kitten with their
exuberance. Children under the age of five years should always be supervised
when playing with or handling a cat. Children over 12 years can usually be
trusted to be gentle, but be sure to occasionally check up on kids under 12
years when they spend concentrated time with the family cat.
Kittens appear to be amazingly flexible, and children often think nothing of
draping a weeks-old cat over the crook of the arm and carrying it around like
a toy. In this position, it is easy for the kitten to be dropped and
seriously injured. Also, being carried like this leaves the cat feeling
unsupported with it's hind legs swinging in space. The best way to carry a
kitten or cat is to place one hand or arm under its front legs, and support
its hind legs with the other hand or arm. This gives the cat a secure
feeling. Teach your children not to carry the cat from one place to another.
Explain that for the cat's safety, they should always sit when they want to
hold the cat, and should have their friends do the same.
Cats often have a mind of their own. Your child might feel like snuggling
quietly at a time when your cat wants to play pounce. Impress on your
children that if the cat ever struggles to get away, they should respect her
wishes and let her go. A cornered cat will scratch and bite.
Encourage your children to exercise the cat by playing with appropriate toys.
It is always tempting to play "catch my hand" with a kitten, because it is so
amusing how fascinated they are with fingers. However, if you teach a kitten
that it is acceptable to swat and bite fingers, you'll wind up with an adult
cat that regularly attacks you. Not exactly the kind of cuddly cat parents
want for their children.
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